Monday, 6 January 2014

The New Year Escape Plan... A different kind of resolution





One good thing about a recession is that it gets people thinking.  The sea of uncertainty separates the rodents who can jump, from those who prefer to go round in a wheel. A recession builds as much as it breaks, demanding initiative and independent determination from the individual who sees opportunity.

Unfortunately such an individual may go unprovoked for the majority of the year, distracted by the monotony of the yearly cycle, justified by the supposed worthiness of their contribution to the wheel of society. Yes, they silence that nagging voice that urges there could be more by plodding away in the system, allowing the years materialistic and artificial milestones to allow the illusion of progress. Yet ever so often something wonderful happens, circumstances align to awaken the individual to hope...a hope for more. And I mean a real more, not a more as in more things, more money, more clothes. More as in make more of a difference, more as in more happiness, more as in more success. This awakening is perhaps never more widespread as The New Year.

The New Year is an opportunity to pause and review, to look back at what one has been doing and evaluate if it is working. Typical New Years Resolution’s tend to favor a todo list of self improvements such as loosing weight or being nicer. Such resolutions are fine for the person who is more or less happy with their position on the rat wheel of society. However I would argue that for those individuals who know in their heart there is more, such resolutions are a cheap temporary filler for a permanent gaping hole.

Let me break it down some more, if you hate your job, if you are under appreciated and under paid, if you have a dream or a vision for contributing more to the world, if you have a business idea- if you have any of these, and your New Years Resolution is along the lines of ‘be nicer to Sally’ or ‘drop 10 lb’s’  you’re selling your self short.

Let your resolution be to sort your life out. I know thats daunting. I know thats a lot. I know that it is certainly more of a challenge then a neatly packaged pre suggested generic resolution, but it is what actually needs resolving. Each time you sit in that job you hate, with no plan of escape, or put off your traveling or charity work, or shelf your big idea you are abusing your spirit. Now let me be clear, I am not saying quit, sell up thy things and follow my teachings. I am simply saying make the resolution to water the seed of potential in you.

What does that look like you ask? Picture your mind is in a prison (thats right, I am getting all Matrix on your ass). When you first got into this prison, you had dreams of escape, dreams of more than the existence thrust upon you, but as time moved on reality took over the dream, and like a broken horse, you accustomed yourself to your surroundings and accepted your lot.  I am trying to help you escape.

The first step of escape is to realize that one is trapped. I think we have established that. The second step to escape is to visualize life on the other side, feed your dreams and acknowledge their realness. The third step is to plan escape, and the forth is to actually escape.

This year put into place a plan to get closer to your dream. That may take the form of sacrificing your ‘free time’ to research, plan and build. That may sound like a bummer but let me say this- it’s not free time until you are actually free, and doing what you were born to do.  

So, if you feel that New Year Itch, scratch it. Work hard, Act fast. Set goals and work towards them now. January is like a rapidly closing window of awakening. If you don’t establish a plan now, pretty soon the monotony of the wheel will have entrapped you into its superficial routine. Time is precious, and so are you. If you know you are not living to your full potential, resolve to rectify this in 2014. I know times are tough and uncertain and blah blah blah- but these are the times you were dealt. And news flash the world has never been easy. You owe it to yourself. Escape.

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Feel better about feeling guilty- bad foods that are actually good


Lately I have been CRAVING chocolate and indulging in said craving ( what ever ,what ever )...
But in all honesty- it for sure will catch up with me soon... whist waiting for my waistlines revenge I started the hunt for healthy cheat food & across vogues solution- OM Bar Superfood chocolate.  Apparently filled with pro biotics- I have no idea what it taste like, but I would have to say its worth a try!



Might as well feel good about feeling guilty...

Love,

Lois
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Anil Arjandas Opening with Lilly Ghalichi



Already popular and successful in Spain and a favourite of celebrities, the London opening of Anil Arjandas was highly anticipated and promised to be an unforgettable event- it did not disappoint.
Set in the heart of London's privileged Mayfair, serenely tucked away just behind Oxford street, lies the store on Davies st.  

Anil Arjandas


Designer Anil Arjandas benefits from a wealth of cultural inspiration and international perspective due to his mixed Indian and Spanish heritage. As a result, each piece is has a unique reference to the beautiful kaleidoscope of South Asian and Mediterranean design.

The Collection

The collections really do have something for everyone, ranging from more classic emerald pieces for the more conservative and spikes for the contemporary. I had the pleasure of talking through the collections with Anils father ( who was dressed impeccably in a custom suit ) he proudly walked me though and explained what makes Anil Jewellery unique. Anil takes care to use black and brown diamonds, favouring them for their classy subtlety that alludes to confident old money luxury.  I love this, as not only are these diamonds beautiful, they are a change from the usual Elizabeth Taylor white diamond. The masterpieces are set in Antique Silver and Rose Gold, again offering a contemporary alternative to the traditional yellow gold.

Our Summary

I loved the collection because it was wearable luxury for the confident woman, who needs pieces that can seamlessly go from dazzling in the day to noticeable at night. In summary the collection is the 21st Century answer to old money glamour. Be sure to check the store out - 20 Davies St, Mayfair, London. As it is just a stones throw from Claridges its the perfect modern day Breakfast At Tiffany's activity- London edition. ;)

Website / Shop Online 
www.anilarjandas.com
Contact:
mayfair@anilarjandas.com
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@anilarjandas
Above, my wearable favourite is this ring, as modeled by Oskana Lysenko & Soraya

The People


Lilly Ghalichi
The event of course was star studded, the jewel of the event being Lilly Ghalichi. In a Ivory gown and radiant as ever she was the perfect addition to such a glamorous event. As well as being the star of reality TV show the Shahs of Sunset, she is also a self made business woman and is the owner of Lilly a retailer of high quality eyelashes. Lilly truly is an inspirational woman for far more than beauty. Her work ethic, style and success makes her an official lifebylois love.
Definatly worth a following, you can find her below:


Official website: http://lillyghalichi.com

Website for lashes: http://lillylashes.com

Matilda Rangatchew
Infact the event was rich with inspirational women. I got talking to Lillys friend, pictured above( far right) Matilda Rangatchew who had amazing style and an beautiful personality. 
As a Multi lingual translator and personal trainer living in Monaco she is another lifebylois love- she is smart, fit, multitasks and looks great doing it! Check out her beautiful accessories below.


Matilda's Website: 

Official website: http://www.monacotranslations.com

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Fashion
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Lois

I wanted to the classic look for this event, and so I chose the 1940's glamour makeup, reinvented for the 21st century with an ombre lip.  I chose a figure hugging maroon dress from Asos. I completed the look with my favorite coat, in the style of the flattering Dior New Look and perfect for my retro glam direction.

Figure Hugging dress from Asos

The Hair And Makeup

To complete the ombre lip, I used Rimmel Colour 6 in the middle and Mac Rebel at the edges.Hair wise I wore one of Le Dutches' custom full wigs, for that over the top big hair luxury.
The hair is naturally straight but we gave it lose waves for an effortless modern look.
www.ledutches.co.uk

The Coat ( Soho, New York)

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Harpers Bazaar women of the year award


I am a fan of women, especially women who are doing their thing successfully, so of course I  would be commenting on the Harpers Bazaar Women of the Year Awards! For me, this is like Christmas and Carnival all in one- An awesome feel good event with amazing fashion and expression of style to pick over. So without further talk, Let the Life by Lois Best Dressed Awards Begin. Yay! ( So excited )

Rita Ora



Ok I have to start off with Rita Ora.

This girl can pull off so many different looks effortlessly she should be making Gaga nervous.
This particular look is Monroe reinvented for the 2013 ( and who doesn't love a futuristic Monroe).
Ora wears Ermanno Scervino, We love Italian Ermanno for his Italian trait of oozing luxury and opulence. This floor kissing gown is the epitome of glamor, whilst the oversized long sleeves give it the cool laid back look that is just so Rita Ora.  I love it!

Cate Blanchett



Cate Blanchett always manages to look elegant and regal and this look is no different. What I specifically like about Cate and her style is that this look is not over done. It is simplistically elegant. The easy cut is flattering yet minimal whilst the embellishment on the cuff ensure that the outfit has an edge. Simply luxurious, but that's so Givenchy isn't it?  Givenchy gave it to us as far as embellishments were concerned at these awards. Style is an be an expression of who you are, and admittedly, we don't know Cate personally, but this outfit suggests that she is laid back yet likes things on point. 

Victoria Beckham

Victoria Beckham in Victoria Beckham.

This woman knows how to turn up! And this time with her son, reminding us all that this standard of perfection is humanly possible. A mother and business woman style queen and designer as well as a brand, Victoria is the poster child of a modern woman. Its all about life balance, and looking fabulous whilst juggling many of the (stylish) hats women wear. This picture for me is the epitome of that. 



Olivia Munn

Winner of the cute award is Olivia Munn, in Givenchy. I first came across this beauty on New Girl as Nicks girlfriend, and have been watching her ever since. This look is a little bit more conservative then we are used to from this sex kitten, but none the less lovely, its a dress your mama would be proud of. The necklace colour adds an edge and the sparkly shoes complimenting the embellished pockets make this look just magical. So yeah I'm a fan.

Natalia Vodianova

Whilst this look is muted monochromatic,  I appreciate the play in fabrics of this dress. The result is a minimalist outfit that is tres chic


All in all I loved these ladies and hope you enjoyed my take on what rocked !

Love you!
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Wednesday, 6 November 2013

Rise an Shine Beauties!


Yaay it's morning :)  Don't feel that way? Well grab some coffee and celebrate in the knowledge that you have the power today to change tomorrow. Oooh poweerr scarry, It needn't be, you can take baby steps , for example is there someone in your life who puts you down? Makes you doubt yourself? Takes but never gives? Today could be the day you stop letting them live in your head rent free and serve that eviction notice. Or maybe you're the one holding yourself back? Or maybe its a negative experience that you have been through- what ever it may be let today be the day you fight for yourself- because your worth it.

Just do the damn thing girl

Lois Says So!




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Wednesday, 26 June 2013

Meet the digitally disenfranchised, no more denial or excuses, just solutions.



Meet the digitally disenfranchised. In fact if you’re over 13 a meeting is as simple as looking your mirror. Oh hush! Quell your protests, another distinctive trait of this group is that they always deny. The reason being, that being behind in technology is strictly taboo. The world demands one be quick with the latest technology, and if you’re not, well, you haven’t evolved. Let your colleagues catch wind, and they will no sooner put you on a raft and push you out to sea, to die a professional death alone.

In this competitive market it is hard to admit ones technological shortcomings, yet it is inevitable that we all have them to some degree. You may be wondering why I picked out an age as young as 12? The reason is because those kids of the millennium aren’t like us, not really. They grew up in a world surrounded by digital innovation, their toy, an i-Phone, their consolation, a game console.

Yes I understand, you think you know technology because you can swiftly use Facebook and Twitter, have a firm grasp of Instagram, an interest in Pinterest and had a blog…somewhere… once. What you fail to realize is that whilst joining Facebook was a decision for you, for them it was an established right of passage.
Whilst we seek to keep on top of the latest social media trend, for them it is second nature. They are like fishes gliding through the changes, adapting and taking their ability for granted, whilst we are like divers, who brought a suit. Yes we can swim, but not without effort.

If we are to be honest, we know it is true. Just one look at your 3-year-old nephew, tapping away at an i-pad, and you know that his generation is of a different kind. Admittedly there are a few among us who have truly grasped technology like second nature, but these, dear friends, are mutants - of which most of us are not.

So, you may wonder why I insisted on doing that - verbally grabbing hold of you and forcing you to admit the facts you have denied for so long. The reason is I wish to help you.  Acknowledgement is the first step. The second is to seek help.

Whilst you may never catch on as quickly as those enviable millennium freaks, you can admit your shortcomings in the form of seeking wisdom.  Its high time you admitted that you don’t know how to use all the features on your new flashy i-Phone, or how to properly use a mac.

The treatment? Seek out the new social sites, software and technology, and make yourself familiar using YouTube videos. Apple offers tutorials with their products in store. I know it is in public, but be brave and go!  

Trend wise, it pays to be ahead, instead of lurking behind in silence, like some scruffy kid, who woke up half way through class, and is afraid to admit that he has no idea what’s going on.  Queue Twitter where you can follow people who were awake and took notes (if you don’t know how to use Twitter, enlist the help of your 3 year old nephew).

Fellow brethren of the 1900’s, I say this because I care.  Whilst we may never be a fish, it’s about time all of us admitted the value of swimming and took it seriously. There is no point wearing the costume, if when the tide comes in you can’t float. Buying the latest technology doesn’t matter if you cant utilize it. So do your self a favor- do better. Learn, get faster and fiercer, for those millennium kids wont be 12 forever… and that raft is itching for company.









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Friday, 12 April 2013

United Colours of Beneton Campaign


Lets venture to say you are what you wear- since clothes are the first point of visual communication, I would say that its fair to argue that bright colours allude to a brighter attitude on life. Far from their controversial roots UCB have released this bright and lively campaign that has even Brits wishing to expand their colour palette. Well have no fear, I have found some pieces to help you colour clash the right way :





Dolce & Gabbanna 1,665



 Victoria Beackham "The Victoria" £1,995

Reid Krakoff £1,170
Jason Wu £1,235






Versace £900
Zara £19.99



Zara £49.99
  Dress yourself happy; video coming soon but in the mean time enjoy all these !

From top left to right :bag, Official Versace ALTUZARRA pants and top. Jaket and pant suit : Clover Canyon via net-a-porter. Dragon Necklace ZARA, Necklace , Zara,

Two tone shoes Zara, Red dress Alexander McQueen,,Necklace Zara, shoes Zara, multi coloured sneakers Zara,

backpack : Net-a-porter.com . Yellow clutch : Zara . Orange Bag Victoria Beckham



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Wednesday, 27 March 2013

MAC Lightful Collection finally reaches UK Shores!!!



Today is a glorious day, Previously only available in the US and Canada, Mac Lightfu; FINALLY comes to the UK. I have been campaigning for this for years, seriously see my video I made last year, joking I was " saving the last drop for my wedding day"... I have been trying to smuggle this in ever since I discovered it in Canada, only to find it not stocked in the UK.

This Miracle line will make your makeup look flawless, and your skin radiant. These asia inspired potions are infused with ' Marine Bright Formula'. What ever that means, the result however is a one stop lie in a bottle. Go GET IT. It will change your life.

MAC Says : "This unprecedented skin-brightening complex, made possible through our exclusive technology, improves clarity, evens pigmentation and creates perfectly luminous skin instantly and over time." - Girl, they aint Lyin...



The collection ranges from £20- £29 depending on what you go for. I suggest the Lightening Softening lotion and the Lightful Essence.
Yay So excited!
 See the hilarious makeup haul video of me testifying Lightful at 3 mins: Make Up Haul Lois & Magda
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Friday, 22 March 2013

Introducing Scaline London: The Future Is Sexy




I had the pleasure of meeting the innovative and inspiring woman behind Scaline London, German /French born, Anne Sophie Koehler in her trendy East London Studio.

I instantly fell in love with this revolutionary label and their knack for effortlessly intertwining modern architectural structure with timeless classic charm.

Scaline London's wearable looks seamlessly slip into your wardrobe whilst spicing up your life.

Featuring corals and  neutrals with leather and cotton, the Scaline Spring /Summer collection is a juxtaposition of feminine favourites that can be used to create edgy ensembles.

So check them out, and support the sexy front runners of tomorrow.

Here is a look I put together featuring their "Betty" cotton Cardigan and this weeks hottest accessories....Boom! You can shop online! Check them out-www.scalinelondon.com






 Love Lois xxx
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Eva Mendes : Best Dressed

Sorry it has been a while, but I the procrastinator of all procrastinators finally got the kick up my ass to get some mush needed work done. Im back however with this killer look by Eva Mendes which made me smile. As news hits that Ryan Gosling is taking a break from acting... his significant other is looking mighty fine. Come on all you weeping girls, even celebrities deserve some chill out couple time during this long winter ;)


Here it is Eva Mendes, Dolce and Gabbana. The only thing I would have modified is the boots, black would have been better. But you go on girl...doing the damn thing
x



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Saturday, 2 March 2013

I'ts the weekend fool! Indulge

Ok before I get started, lets have a moment for all the under appreciated warriors who work in Retail on the weekend. For them this 'back off' aaah moment to exhale does not apply :( But If you are lucky enough to own your weekends, this message is for you.

Hello you 9-5 superwoman storm trooper. You have braved it through the London traffic, the delays, annoying co workers and work initiatives that have no relation to your actual life, but have taken up more time than you have dedicated to yourself all year. Now is the time to breathe- claim some you time & indulge. Its tempting to go all YOLO all weekend, but the good Lord knew what he was talking about when he said take one day to rest. So, here it is, your must have , back off ME day.

Begin with easing your pretty self out of bed, except you don't feel so pretty? Late nights and stress have you looking like the troll under the bridge and the goats in '3 billy goats gruff'? No matter, take some time to pamper yourself.

So here is the plan

Bath's are the most accessible luxury that we all fail to take advantage of. Question- Why do we all fuss so much about a hot tub with strange old men at our gym and fail to take advantage of ours at home. Ok, I can hear you, " It's not a hot tub its a bath... no bubbles". Well I say its a fair trade, trade soaking in the juices of creepy old men for the privacy of your own home, and trade bubbles for essential oils, bubble bath and candles. 

#1
Set The Scene


Get your self some scented candles
Lights:
Its amazing the difference lighting can make, I don't like sitting in a dark tub, or a bright interrogation light, so a happy medium is an array of candles scented to relax. Parisian brand Diptyque are famed for their quality scents. Check out their Anniversary collection 34....if your'e fancy. If not, head down to your local pound store and get yourself some French Vanilla ones....and you can bring more Paris luxury into your bath on the next point.


Music:


Get some Jazz, I am specifically feeling French Jazz right now,  but if you prefer bopping your head to English, Lana de Havas &Laura Mvula are great newcomers, whilst Floetry , Zero 7 & and Lemon Jelly, Jill Scott and even the odd Q- Tip song can make amazing rewind remedies. Beyond that go old school with Nina Simone, Aretha, Frank Sinatra & my favourite, Nat King Cole.

Before you get in the bath grab some essentials. Grab a mud mask.
Now, Grab some magazines, some fresh juice coffee or tea and just soak.

Take this time, to do your face regimen or condition your hair (with all that lovely steam). Aaah.
When you are done , moisturize with some body butter and finish off around your neck with some perfumed creme. My favourite? Jean Paul Gaultier for that classic , oh so feminine magic..

Feel refreshed? 

Now try this beauty secret to seal the deal.  To get rid of dark circles, grab half a lemon and squeeze onto it 3/4 honey. Massage onto face, leave for a few - and then wash off with cold water.

Now you are ready to start your day... Take it easy awesome, and I suggest treating yourself to a cupcake. Well you have to have some You Only Live Once spirit in your weekend.

L A W of Life : Enjoy every moment.


Love Lois

xxx
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